Girls
So there was this girl in this little party (not that party), and I was chatting with her and there was some kind of chemistry. The ratio of men to women was like 3:1, so eventually I found her chatting with other guys too.
By the end of the party I said my goodbyes and I gave her my card. I made the mistake of not asking for her number. Now it’s been more than five days and she didn’t call yet. I want to consult you about something, would it be too creepy if I asked around in a discrete way and got her number and called her? Or should I just wait and see? If she didn’t call, does that mean she’s not interested or she’s just too shy to make the first move?
On the other hand, there’s this chick in another party (yes that party) and she was like ‘I like your hair’ and ‘I gotta see sometime soon, ok?’ with the most foxy look. Does that mean anything at all?
April 19th, 2005 12:24
hmm, so this is another woman? what happened to the one you posted about in the “Hello” post?
See you around
April 19th, 2005 12:49
It seems to me from this post, and previous ones, that you have a hard time in deciphering female sexual codes.
The brutal truth is, dear tata, that there are no codes at all. There is no golden rule that you could extract and implement.
Girl #1 is either interested and shy, or not interested.
Girl # 2 is either hitting on you, or flirting innocently.
So what shall you do? The next time you meet a girl, ask her bluntly about her intentions and messages. I don’t think that any girl would miss the chance to dispell any future misunderstandings.
April 19th, 2005 13:06
Shosho, don’t push the guy to do wild things, otherwise he might end up with a moehawk (spelling) instead of an Afro
April 19th, 2005 14:18
Purgy - I am not pushing him. I am simply explaining the state of affairs, and it is up to him to do what suits him best.
April 19th, 2005 17:22
Stupid male thinking with his brain again. You need to think more with your penis when it comes to girls. Your brain is only good for getting you out of trouble.
So are you in trouble?
April 20th, 2005 04:56
relax, #2 was probably being just friendly.. next time you see her you be the friendly one and see what happens.
*if she doesnt start slapping/screaming then it’s fine!* lol
April 20th, 2005 08:56
go with nibaq’s advice
April 20th, 2005 10:26
what the hell , there are parties in jahra
April 20th, 2005 10:55
Purg, I didn’t find her … and there’s no hope in finding her although I’m getting some hints here and there.
Shosho, I will try that next time.
Purg, I might go bald though
Nibaq, I was like 50% brains, 50% dick … the dick mentality really does wonders … check this out …
She: so you are going to another party now?
Me: I’m not leaving to the other party unless you come with me.
AND she came with me to the other party (with three irish guys I don’t remember their names and I couldn’t understand a word they were saying.)
See? that was my dick thinking, and the fucker (pun intended) is really smart sometimes.
UzF, but what if she started slapping/screaming? dude, you are not giving me other options.
Edj guy, I think I will (see the dick dialouge)
Foraza, Yes there are … We pitch this tent in the middle of nowhere and start sipping tea and ‘eghawah’ till six in the morning.
April 20th, 2005 18:04
Well there is no rule in here! it differs from grl to another. Hmm I think some grlz would luv it if you trace them down while others will think “what a psycho”. Anyhow, I am assuming she was just being friendly, grlz interested will tend to call or at least sms.
April 20th, 2005 22:35
tata dear,
girls will never know if you are interested in them unless YOU tell them.
B.
April 21st, 2005 09:44
how come almost everyone has been to those two parties last weekend!
April 22nd, 2005 01:51
Boys!
April 22nd, 2005 05:38
Shopaholic, I agree but how do you know what kind of girl she is?
lilie,
Dear B.
I will try to work on it.
Thanks
purg, I didn’t go to those parties … I just went one of them and another one which isn’t one of ‘those’ parties.
Shruouq, LOL … HOT.
April 22nd, 2005 12:49
Tata, well you cant really tell, my advise is to follow ur instinct